I am very good at picking out who to date on Tinder

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So today I went to the sauna with a bunch of guy friends and we were grabbing some food at a cafe later. A few of them were in their thirties and were talking about their dating escapades.

Note that Bangkok is a very good place to be a single guy. Especially as an American expat. LOL

Anyway one guy was showing his Tinder account and showing some of the people he was messaging with. And my immediate reaction was… “Are you crazy? Most of these women suck!”

But I of course look at very different things than he does.

I am very good at ‘reading the skull’

My eyes go straight to the edges and shape of the skull. The profile and quality of the cervical spine.

I can look at a person’s face and I will tell with far better accuracy than the vast majority of folks out there what this person’s body looks like.

For example I can tell by the facial development of this woman above that she will have a very tight body. Even much better than most of the women out there that are showing off their body.

I will also be able to infer a lot of things about their personality. Most of which will be true a high percentage of the time.

How will i be able to do this? Simple… i’m paying attention to these patterns for a decade.

It is much harder to trick me

I noticed that a lot of the women were using lighting and angles that made it look like they are skinnier and sexier than they are.

The problem in doing this with me is that all i need to see is a small section and I know what the larger pattern will look like.

If they show me a bit of their legs or a decent shot of the spine, I will have a very good idea for how the whole package looks.

And so I found myself frequently thinking about most of my friend’s choices… “no dude… this girl will not look nearly as good in real life.”

I also spot hidden gems much faster

A classic hidden gem opportunity is like this girl above. From her photo it is very hard to tell what her body looks like.

You could infer from the baggy clothing that perhaps she is a bit chubby.

I, however, would be able to infer from the definition on her face that no.. actually her body is probably very good.

One classic one that I do as kind of a game when i’m driving my scooter around Bangkok is guessing what the girl on the bike in front of me looks like.

I use cues such as how flexible her legs are and the texture of her hair to guess how attractive she is. Then i pass them and see if I was right.

Needless to say, i’m pretty accurate.

I think my choices will often be better choices long-term

By this i mean that I can also tell a lot about the structural integrity of the skull and this will often have strong correlations on how stable they are emotionally, etc.

I will know their personality better than most folks because I will know how damaged their neurological system is.

For example someone might look at this girl below and think… “maybe she has a lot of emotional baggage”.

Whereas I would look at her complexion and easy smile and know that her neurological system is probably in very good shape.

And that she’s probably a wonderful, confident person.

Wrapping up

My point in this post is that when you look at these patterns in others for a long time and have a way of checking to see if they are right.. it will give you some powerful insights into predicting how new people you meet will turn out.

And this will save you a lot of time and energy that you would have wasted in the wrong people.

I am rarely ever surprised these days. When I put together my mental profile on someone based on their skull and body… the shit almost always turns out being on point.

But within certain parameters… I’m not saying i know every element of their personality.

I am saying that I know, for example, how strong they are likely to turn out emotionally. Because I’ll have a good glimpse into how their neurological system